Men: Do You Think She’s Pregnant?

You are not alone in this situation. The two of you can get through this. She needs you now more than ever. It’s vitally important that you provide her with the support she needs – emotionally and physically. Here are some tips on how you can do this.


What To Do

Talk with her and listen to her. Keep the lines of communication open between the two of you at all times. DO NOT close yourself off emotionally because this situation involves more than just you!

Be there for her. She needs you now more than ever before.

Talk with the people who care. In addition to keeping the lines of communication open between the two of you, its important to discuss the situation with parents and others who’ll be directly affected. Keeping this a secret will only add to the stress – yours and hers.

Educate yourself. Collect information and seek advice from people you trust.

Be honest with her and yourself. Own and share at all times how you feel. You’ll be surprised at what you learn about yourself. And you’ll be proud that you’re standing tall together!


What Not To Do

Don’t run from your responsibilities. The more you try to avoid this situation, the harder things will get for the three of you. Now. And forever.

Don’t pressure her to do what you want. You both need to work together at all times. You’re a team now!

Don’t stop communicating with her. Express your feelings and add input whenever it’s needed.

Carolina Pregnancy Center is here as a resource for you as well as for her. Please call CPC if you would like to talk with a peer counselor about your thoughts and concerns.